The Art of Making Love: Beyond Romance

and Into Daily Acts of Kindness

If you've been knowing me for some time or worked alongside me, you're likely aware of my affinity for using the phrase 'making love' in a less conventional sense. Nowadays, 'making love' has become almost exclusively associated with the physical intimacy shared between beloved partners, however, in my perspective, the concept extends far beyond this limited definition.

In my worldview, 'making love' transcends the confines of a physical connection; it encompasses the profound act of giving our best to others, be it our family or total strangers. There exists a beauty so profound in the simplicity of a smile or the joy of engaging in a lighthearted conversation with someone we may never cross paths with again. There is a purity behind an act of love that doesn't expect anything in return. For me, that's the essence of "making love".

There was a juncture in my life when I began to question whether this essence should be our default state. While a part of me pondered the possibility of being an utopia, my heart emerged triumphant in that internal debate. It led me to pivot my life significantly, seeking the truth embedded within this principle. I won't sugarcoat it; the journey wasn't or is always smooth. Yet, through it all, I've come to own the unwavering understanding that difficulty arises only when doubt creeps in, however it is beyond magical when I align my whole being with the truth of this principle.
A representation of the kundalini energy activation in the body, flowing through the 7 chakras system.
For those who've witnessed this phenomenon, you know exactly what I am attempting to convey. For those who haven't, skepticism might prevail – and that's alright. But know, love has a way of sneaking up on you, just as it did on me. And then, when you experience the magic that life is supposed to be at all times, you will see that you will do anything you can to keep it coming, even if it comes at the cost of letting go of what you always thought to be true. That's how the universe keeps expanding and we become closer and closer to who we really are.

From my experience, it felt like passing through a vortex, where the only path to the other side involved releasing prior concepts rooted in fear. This journey demanded the development of blind faith and trust in what lay beyond me. It has been a profoundly humbling process, yet it symbolized the rebirth of life, infusing every cell of my being with a radiant light that feels like home.

Imagine a world where each individual operates from this essence, where acts of love and kindness are the norm rather than the exception. It's a world where people genuinely care for each other, where empathy and understanding reign supreme, and where differences are celebrated rather than feared. In this world, relationships are nurtured, conflicts are resolved with compassion, and communities thrive in harmony.
A pictures of a Hindu God golden statue representing the kundalini energy taken at a life changing, wellness retreat in portugal.
The beauty of embracing this philosophy lies in its simplicity. It doesn't require grand gestures or extraordinary efforts; it starts with the small, genuine acts of kindness we extend to others. Lending a helping hand, listening attentively, or offering words of encouragement—these seemingly inconsequential actions have the potential to create ripples of positivity that extend far beyond what we can imagine.

Moreover, adopting this kind of mindset fosters a sense of interconnectedness. It allows us to recognize that our actions, no matter how small, contribute to the collective tapestry of human experiences. When we embrace this interconnectedness, the barriers of 'us versus them' begin to dissolve, and we realize that we're all part of a larger, shared human experience.

At its core, this concept encourages us to see beyond surface-level differences and connect on a deeper, soulful level. It prompts us to look past judgments and biases, leading to a more inclusive and compassionate society. When love becomes our default state, the world transforms into a more inviting, nurturing, and harmonious place for everyone.

However, embracing this philosophy doesn't mean ignoring the complexities and challenges of life. It's about accepting what is and learning to retune ourselves back to a state of love for ourselves and others. It's understanding that love isn't just a fleeting emotion, but a guiding force that empowers us to navigate life's uncertainties with courage and resilience.
A beautiful blond lady laying down on the grass, wearing a whool sweeter color blue, in complete appreciation - one of the benefits of KAE - and with her hands placed over her heart after a kundalini activation session in a retreat in portugal.
It's important to mention again that living from this essence isn't always easy, specially when we first make the conscious decision of pursuit it. There will be moments of frustration, disappointment, and disagreement. Yet, these challenging times gives us the opportunity to look inside and develop the necessary tools that will support our next level of evolution.

Ultimately, this world we envision, starts with each of us embodying this essence in our own lives. It's a collective journey—one where every individual contribution, no matter how small, contributes to the creation of a more compassionate and loving world.

Because this journey holds such significance in my personal experience and because I wholeheartedly believe it's a universal process for all of us, both individually and collectively, I dedicate my life to aiding people in navigating this same journey. My aim is to guide them back to their inner truth, helping them emerge on the other side with grace, clarity, and a heart brimming with love. I wish to equip them with the strength needed to positively transform their lives and to serve as a catalyst for positive change in the world around them.

So, let's embrace the beauty of 'making love' in our daily lives. Let's choose love over indifference, kindness over apathy, and understanding over judgment. Together, we can cultivate a better world and enrich our lives and those of generations to come.

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A black and white picture of the back of three young ladies hugging each other while looking at a lake in front of them at a kundalini and life-changing retreat in Portugal.